According the urban dictionary, the trophy girlfriend is someone who is extremely beautiful, to be considered as a prize. Unfortunately her love by an older man is kind of trick love. He just uses her for his own pleasures to show-off to his buddies, will lose his interest once she begins to age sadly. Or it refers to type of playful woman who is model-like & look for sugar daddy. Neither of them love / care each other. This type of mutually beneficial relationship sounds weird but it do commonly exist in the reality.
Sometimes I feel like guys are looking for a trophy gal instead of a life-long partner. It works for both way. The trophy gal might be searching for a trophy boy too.
What's relationship? Why are we seeking for a better half? Don't you wanna grow up with your life-long partner? Or else he/ she is just a piece of medal for you to show-off ironically?
Miss our school days... those were the pure love that you trust your instant feeling. You love someone in the way they are. Not in terms of calculation - what they do, how old, how much they earn, where do they live, what are their hobbies... Or school kids do concern of these criteria these days? I might be too old to know haha, but anyways, what I'm trying to say is that when you grow up, you start to lose the ability to love the true human nature. Maybe I shud put it in this way - you know yourself better, in a sense that you could only allow certain type of people to get into your world. You know which type of guy/ gal would attract you the most. That's still good at least you know what your preference are. Isn't it?
At the end of the day, we're simply a piece of social recognition, a piece of medal to show-off in front of the peer, a piece of certificate to gain the cultural influence. Aren't we?
Do you want to be the trophy gal? Or are you consider yourself as a trophy guy?
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